Nov. 28 - Give Thanks for Second Chances!

Our pastor likes to say that "Our God is the God Of Second Chances," (or third, or fourth or even 78th!)

We saw that firsthand yesterday, when we were helping the 3rd graders go to confession. One little sweetie asked "Is Father going to judge me?"
"No," her catechist answered, "He is speaking for Jesus, who is very happy that you are coming to talk to him.  You just have to say anything that you feel sorry for."
The little girl nodded, then sighed. "I'm glad I'm doing this." she said.  "I have a deep sorrow to talk about."

Putting aside wondering what "deep sorrow" such a young person could possibly have to confess, it was nevertheless inspiring to see such a small person reflect on her actions. She realized she had done something that she wished she had not done, and here was her opportunity to go and make it right. 

The idea of second chances is not new. In fact, the Old Testament is filled with stories of God giving second chances. That's why there are so many covenants. But one thing that we do often overlook is that in order to be reconciled - to God, to our neighbors and within ourselves - there has to be repentance. Repentance is the key that opens the door of mercy.   Only those who realize they have done something wrong, can then also decide to repent of it. It seems rather obvious, but it's surprising how often this step is missed. Then, of course, true repentance is also followed by a change in behavior. Sometimes this change is the real barrier to repentance. We are sorry, sort of, just not enough to change. 

As the liturgical year draws to its final few days, and the Mass readings continually focus on the end times and the 2nd coming of Christ, it's good for us to remind ourselves that we don't have to get everything right, all the time and every time. Our God is the God of Second Chances, and as long as we are willing to trust the mercy of Christ, we can always start over.